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most of them say,
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when they see their superior running around
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working much more than 40 hours a week.
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The higher you rank up in the hierarchy,
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the more limited your time seems.
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Can this race against the clock be reversed?
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To illustrate this question,
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here's a little story inspired by Dinigi on the hectic life of a manager.
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I have a friend,
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who started his career as a salesperson at a telephone operator.
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His time was dedicated to canvassing,
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and contracting with San Francisco's companies.
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He was rather talented and got quickly noticed by his superiors.
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One day his superior called him,
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congratulated him for his performance,
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and offered him a promotion.
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He found himself managing 3 residential salespersons.
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They were all juniors.
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He managed them while keeping his own portfolio of main clients.
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took him much more time.
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So he started staying late at work.
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He sacrificed some of his family time.
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He exceeded 45 hours a week.
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He had less time to see his children.
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He refused to go out in the evening with his wife.
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He was doing a great job.
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Two years later,
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very satisfied with his dedication and results,
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entrusted him with a bigger mission
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to be in charge of the Gamma Pro products with key accounts in Silicon Valley.
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His team grew to have 15 employees,
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juniors and seniors.
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He dedicated himself to launching the sale of this new product
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and to VIP customers.
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Given all his new responsibilities,
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I saw Mark less and less.
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We used to meet every week to play tennis together.
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He canceled these meetings regularly,
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then definitely.
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He stopped going to the company's gym.
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He declined friendly weekend outings because he was working.
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He sacrificed his leisure time,
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his social life.
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Then 2 years ago he was offered a new promotion
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overseeing all the agencies of the Southeast area.
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He found himself supervising sales teams inside and outside the agency.
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You can't say no to a promotion like that.
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He decided to follow a portfolio of key clients
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that required him to travel a lot during the day.
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He started early and finished late.
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He had 8 weeks of paid leave that he didn't allow himself to take.
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He was solicited from all sides by his clients and particularly
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by his teams who knew he was an expert sales representative.
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He was on the forefront of everything.
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Now he never sees his children,
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not at breakfast nor at bedtime.
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No more nights out,
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no more weekends or short vacations.
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He sacrificed his time off.
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He was no longer resting.
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his newly promoted boss offered him to follow him and be his right hand man.
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Mark wonders whether he will accept this tempting promotion on a flawless career.
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If he continues on this path,
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what else does he have to sacrifice?
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More his family time,
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I coached several managers who worked more than 50,
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60 hours a week.
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Some thought that was very normal.
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Others were exhausted.
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Their families had stopped supporting them
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and were complaining about their absence,
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but they thought that they didn't have a choice.
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They were told that climbing the hierarchy meant working
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more and sacrificing some personal time for work.
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How can we go back
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to the golden rectangle?
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How can we go back to a legal working time and not working on weekends and holidays?
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The higher you go up the hierarchy,
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the more you should start delegating instead of doing.
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We made a video on the subject.
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Mark was doing more and more management
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while continuing to handle large client portfolios.
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He was juggling two jobs manager and sales representative.
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No wonder he started slipping.
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To avoid slipping while continuing to provide quality work,
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you can either refuse taking on new missions or delegate some tasks.
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it is at the time of your promotion to a new management position.
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That you should make sure you're not starting this new job
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while still keeping a bit of the old one.
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The time imparted to the execution of tasks must be replaced by management time.
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Negotiate well for any new assignment.
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I accept to work on this transversal file.
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I accept this new position on one condition.
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Here are all the missions that I will no longer be handling
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and that need to be delegated to others.
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Transferring tasks is of course about delegating,
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especially if you become manager
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of an entity in which you already work.
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Gradually over 6 months maximum.
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The execution tasks you had should be redistributed to your collaborators.
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It is the only way to not get caught in a hectic trapeze situation.
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even if your position is not evolving,
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whether you are a manager or not,
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you can little by little slip into this hectic trapeze.
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By keeping your nose to the grindstone,
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you do not see this hectic dynamic forming.
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internal changes,
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technical evolution,
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all this pushes you to work harder.
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Make sure not to durably affect your family time,
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your social and leisure time,
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or your time off.
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Manager or non-manager,
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to preserve your balance,
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learn how to say no,
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how to negotiate,
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and how to delegate.
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