The YESYESNO shield Tutorial

Unlock the power of assertiveness with 'The YesYesNo Shield.' Discover how this transformative concept by Dan Law teaches you to recognize your intrinsic value and that of others, while freeing you from the need for approval. Embrace a life of true freedom and connection, treating everyone as a VIP, and watch your relationships flourish. Don't miss this enlightening journey!

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a consultant and creator at World Education,

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invented the concept of the yes yes no shield.

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What is written on the three corners of the yes yes no shield?

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1,

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yes,

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I am important.

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2,

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yes,

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others are important.

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3,

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no,

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I am not seeking to be loved.

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This shield has 8 possible combinations,

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but only yes,

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yes,

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no frees and makes one happy.

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First corner of the shield.

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Yes,

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I am important.

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Give yourself VIP status.

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You are a very important person.

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You are a miracle of nature.

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Your two eyes,

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for example,

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can save thousands of people and thousands of euros because you might spot a fire.

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Your value is infinite regardless of the money in

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your bank account or the number of your friends.

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Tell yourself I exist for a good reason.

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The world would be missing someone if I did not exist.

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Treat yourself as a VIP at every moment.

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Yes,

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others are important.

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Others are also VIPs.

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Everything we possess is made by others our meal,

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this chair,

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our house.

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They have done everything for our well-being.

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We are not alone.

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If others are there and exist,

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it's for a good reason.

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Even our enemy is important because they highlight our blockages and fragilities,

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helping us to consciously choose to go beyond.

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They contribute to our liberation unless we refuse the message of their presence.

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All others are VIPs,

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even strangers and those who rub our wounds.

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But beware,

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seeing them as VIPs does not mean becoming their servants.

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And the base of the shield.

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No,

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I am not seeking to be loved.

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Seeking to be loved is to live in constant worry.

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It's trying to control oneself to gain approval or love from others,

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no matter what others think.

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Let's stay free.

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We don't have to wear makeup or twist ourselves.

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For someone else,

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a VIP does not do that.

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It's true freedom,

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true power to understand that we don't need to be loved.

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The incredible power of the yes,

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yes,

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no shield is that it offers the ability to approach everyone.

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Everyone is a VIP.

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We can talk with the same gaze,

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with the same respect to a homeless person or a leader.

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We will have access to one.

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This shield stops all negative thoughts.

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I am important.

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Others are important.

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I don't need to be loved.

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From then on,

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I am totally free to speak,

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to create.

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I have nothing to prove.

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I can say no to someone while continuing to see them as a VIP.

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Everyone can criticize me,

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and I will continue to smile.

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If you smile,

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people will want to work with you.

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And if someone asks you,

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why are you smiling?

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reply,

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because you are a VIP.

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