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It's Not Emotional Intelligence Tutorial

Discover what emotional intelligence truly is by debunking common misconceptions! In "It's Not Emotional Intelligence," we explore the fine line between empathy and self-neglect. Learn why being humble, overhelping, or suppressing emotions doesn't equate to emotional awareness. Dive into insights that transform your understanding of communication and relationships!

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is because our eager recommends us to be humble.

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It's not emotional intelligence to help everyone in need.

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It's not emotional intelligence to want to change the other,

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even if we pretend it's for their good.

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It's not emotional intelligence to want the other to be happy at all costs.

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It's not emotional intelligence to want to agree

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on everything with one's partner or colleague.

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It's not emotional intelligence to continue to

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associate with someone who harms us.

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It's not emotional intelligence to let a victim

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tell us about their misfortunes for hours.

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It's not emotional intelligence to trust everyone.

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It's not emotional intelligence to listen to someone

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who does not listen to us in return.

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It's not emotional intelligence to repress our emotions of sadness,

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fear,

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or anger.

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It's not emotional intelligence to convince the other

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to do something they didn't want to do.

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It's not emotional intelligence to lie to the other,

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not to hurt them.

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It's not emotional intelligence to forget oneself for the benefit of others.

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It's not emotional intelligence to blindly follow

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social expectations without listening to oneself.

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It's not emotional intelligence to pretend that

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everything is fine when one feels bad.

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It's not emotional intelligence to believe

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that compassion means accepting everything.

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It's not emotional intelligence to get lost in the past or regrets.

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It's not emotional intelligence to judge the emotions of others.

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It's not emotional intelligence to lecture the other,

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telling them what they must do for the planet,

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for education,

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and so on.

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It's not emotional intelligence to guilt trip the other or oneself.

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